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Riccardo Tisci says his best sexual experience was with a famous man
"I have several but the one I think immediately is an experience I had with a man who is known. I never imagined that something could happen between us and it's still the hottest weekend of my life. Nobody really knows if this guys is straight or gay, it is a mystery. However, I was attracted to him, his way of speaking, thinking, walking, dressing. I love what he does an an artist. This weekend both, the intimate moment has really reinforced my attraction to him."He might be talking about Frank Ocean. There have been rumours. Anyway, hope he doesn't write a tell-all book one day!
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Breaking News: Comedian Igos to fight Samuel Peters for $1 Billion
Talented funnyman Igos, makes a quantum leap with his comedy skit titled “Igos trains for a $1Billion dream bout".
The side-splitting video serves up a ton of laughs as we see Igos
starring as a spry and energetic young man who decides to improve his
fortunes by signing up for a boxing match against a world heavyweight
champion. He enlists the help of an equally spirited trainer, played by
celebrity dance choreographer Kaffy who puts him through an extended series of workouts, only for him to end up biting off more than he can possibly chew.
The hilarious 6-minute video is chock-full of laughs and serves as a promotional video for the upcoming IGOS LIVE(O Angelos) which will hold on the 2nd of June 2013. Igos will be thrilling the audience at the Muson Centre, Onikan, Lagos, alongside other titans of comedy such as Basketmouth, Funnybone, Okey Bakassi, Seyi Law, Jedi, Lolo 1, and Buchi and will feature musical performances by MI, Ice Price, Olamide, Phyno, Solid Star, Chidinma, Sound Sultan, N6, DJ Xclusive and
a host of others in what looks to be an explosive night of
entertainment. The show will be hosted by BlackBerry comedy phenomenon Chi-Gurl and comic actor/advertising rave of the moment, Saka.
Igos trains for a $1Billion dream bout Video Sharing Link: WATCH
The multiple award-winning Igos is an on-air personality with 95.1 Wazobia FM who presents the popular radio programme “Oga Madam Office” with
Lolo 1, has produced concerts such as ‘Igos - D’Prince of Wazobia Live’
and ‘Palava Injection with Igos and Lolo 1’ and has to his credit
impressive performances such as Nite of a Thousand Laffs, Alibaba Live, Standup Nigeria, Cool FM Praise Jam, AY Live, Made in Warri, Rhythm Unplugged, as well as Basketmouth’s Lords of the Rib.
Tickets
for the Igos Live Show are available at all TFC outlets in Lagos,
Genesis Deluxe Cinemas at The Palms Lekki, Beerhug at the Ikeja Mall,
Silverbird Cinemas V.I &Ikeja, The Place (Lekki&Ikeja), Muson
Centre Onikan, Film House Cinemas Surulere,http://www.jumia.com
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Open Letter My Igbo Sister, AfroCandy, Who Has Brought Shame To Us
When Ob9ja.com called Judith Opara, popularly known as AfroCandy, an
Igbo woman, some of my friends from the South-East complained that I am
"bias" to the Igbos. A few guys called me to state their grievance and I
asked them to go read my posts on Yoruba men and women, there are many.
Please, Ob9ja.Com is not bias against Igbo or any other tribe.
AfroCandy is an Igbo woman and her nefarious acts should affect the
Igbos more than any other Nigerian.
True to my stand, an Igbo man has lambasted AfroCandy in an open letter. See the letter below:
Dear Judith Opara Mazagwu,
Whenever I eventually meet you the daring she-d** in person, I shall ask effusively: “Nwanne nwanyi, I bu onye Igbo?” If your answer is affirmative, I shall yell: “Tufia!!!” to high heavens and probe further: “Nna gi na nne gi, ha bu cha ndigbo? Is your father and mother originally Igbos?”
If you, the architect of w**re-llywood, return a negative answer, I
shall heave the deepest sigh of relief and dance with reckless abandon. I
shall wail with anguish if your parents are truly of the noble Igbo
stock.
Opara’s daughter, what has the Igbos, who pride their women in purity, decorum and royalty done to you? What has Ikemba’s people done to deserve the putrid essence you displayed in that raunchy movie trailer? The dignity of womanhood, you desecrated shamelessly.
You should have converted your nomenclature to that of the an**al kingdom before you set the cameras rolling. Who called the shots for filming that monstrosity that debased womanhood and motherhood? Yes, you suffered child abuse but how does being raped at the age of 19 confer a porn star designation? Who sponsored the spread of your genit*ls in public sphere with that pervert who wants his scenes deleted after the collateral damage had been done? I hope a copy of Destructive Instinct will be delivered to Censors Board in Nigeria for classification.
Judith Opara, that bald headed bloke was actually squeezing, kissing and caressing your buttocks and boobs on camera while you were letting out uhhhs and ahhhs? You had the nerve to upload same online? What manner of poverty configured the mental faculties of a 41 year old mother of two to engage in unclad and display the see tape on the internet without consideration for her children’s future?
It is an abomination in Igbo land nay Africa for a child to behold his mother in such intense sexing expedition. Not even sex starved rapis*s dare to devour a victim before her child’s very eyes. I hope your children will never watch Destructive Instinct, the atrocity you produced.
Until we can trace your lineage to Igbo kindred, I doubt the language of your name. I challenge your brothers, sisters, cousins aunts, uncles (your parents are most definitely dead), friends, relatives, classmates etc to write a rejoinder and authenticate your tribe. I enjoin other concerned brethren both at home and in the Diaspora not to judge you harshly but pray to God whom you offended with impunity, to hasten a financial breakthrough that will discourage your big screen whorish aspiration. Your choice of career is an aberration to us, of eastern Nigeria.
I solicit for contributions from public spirited Nigerians and Africans. Afro Candy is in dire need of rehabilitation – mentally, medically, financially, spiritually and otherwise.
A psychiatrist facility will do a lot for Ada anyi nwanyi. The woman who can perform unclad, naked on stage owes a psychotherapist a visit.
My dearest sister, conduct a thorough research and you will discover that blue film practitioners are never regarded, not even in Hollywood. I advise you to refrain from sexu*l motion pictures that will further saturate our cyber space with unwholesome content.
Yours Sincerely,
Uzor Ngoladi
Opara’s daughter, what has the Igbos, who pride their women in purity, decorum and royalty done to you? What has Ikemba’s people done to deserve the putrid essence you displayed in that raunchy movie trailer? The dignity of womanhood, you desecrated shamelessly.
You should have converted your nomenclature to that of the an**al kingdom before you set the cameras rolling. Who called the shots for filming that monstrosity that debased womanhood and motherhood? Yes, you suffered child abuse but how does being raped at the age of 19 confer a porn star designation? Who sponsored the spread of your genit*ls in public sphere with that pervert who wants his scenes deleted after the collateral damage had been done? I hope a copy of Destructive Instinct will be delivered to Censors Board in Nigeria for classification.
Judith Opara, that bald headed bloke was actually squeezing, kissing and caressing your buttocks and boobs on camera while you were letting out uhhhs and ahhhs? You had the nerve to upload same online? What manner of poverty configured the mental faculties of a 41 year old mother of two to engage in unclad and display the see tape on the internet without consideration for her children’s future?
It is an abomination in Igbo land nay Africa for a child to behold his mother in such intense sexing expedition. Not even sex starved rapis*s dare to devour a victim before her child’s very eyes. I hope your children will never watch Destructive Instinct, the atrocity you produced.
Until we can trace your lineage to Igbo kindred, I doubt the language of your name. I challenge your brothers, sisters, cousins aunts, uncles (your parents are most definitely dead), friends, relatives, classmates etc to write a rejoinder and authenticate your tribe. I enjoin other concerned brethren both at home and in the Diaspora not to judge you harshly but pray to God whom you offended with impunity, to hasten a financial breakthrough that will discourage your big screen whorish aspiration. Your choice of career is an aberration to us, of eastern Nigeria.
I solicit for contributions from public spirited Nigerians and Africans. Afro Candy is in dire need of rehabilitation – mentally, medically, financially, spiritually and otherwise.
A psychiatrist facility will do a lot for Ada anyi nwanyi. The woman who can perform unclad, naked on stage owes a psychotherapist a visit.
My dearest sister, conduct a thorough research and you will discover that blue film practitioners are never regarded, not even in Hollywood. I advise you to refrain from sexu*l motion pictures that will further saturate our cyber space with unwholesome content.
Yours Sincerely,
Uzor Ngoladi
Woman Takes Off Her Clothes To Protest Hunger In Lagos
It is this ironic imbalance in Nigeria that forced Esther Odozi, a
mother of five kids to take off her clothes at the premises of the Ikeja
Magistrate Court in Lagos, saying hunger is "killing me and my
children."
“Hunger, hunger!! Government must do something today. I have not received anything from the plenty crude oil money government is spending in our state. Nigerians are wicked,” she shouted on top of her voice.
Insisting government must help her before hunger kills her, Esther bared
her breasts and was rolling on the floor, saying she left her children
at home without food. She laid half-naked on a road in the court. She
ignored passersby who shouted at her to cover her body.
A passersby tried to give her N500 but she refused, saying “I don’t want
your money. I want Fashola to give me N200,000” to start a business.
In a chat with Punch, Esther said “After confronting serious hardship in my state, I was advised by an official of Human Rights Commission in Delta State to go to Human Rights Commission in Abuja. I also went to Police Headquarters and NAPTIP in Abuja. They all told me to go to Lagos to get help.”
“My husband, Donald Ogbaja, was a retired policeman before he died of hunger. He married me when I was 17. I bore five children, including twins for him.”
Esther said she tried to survive on her own by cultivating some crops. She, however, said she was hit by a car and had been hindered by her injury to continue working on her farm. She revealed wounds on her left leg and the right side of her hips; she said she was hit by a car.
In a chat with Punch, Esther said “After confronting serious hardship in my state, I was advised by an official of Human Rights Commission in Delta State to go to Human Rights Commission in Abuja. I also went to Police Headquarters and NAPTIP in Abuja. They all told me to go to Lagos to get help.”
“My husband, Donald Ogbaja, was a retired policeman before he died of hunger. He married me when I was 17. I bore five children, including twins for him.”
Esther said she tried to survive on her own by cultivating some crops. She, however, said she was hit by a car and had been hindered by her injury to continue working on her farm. She revealed wounds on her left leg and the right side of her hips; she said she was hit by a car.
When she was asked that as a young woman, didn’t she feel ashamed to bare her breast? She answered, “I don’t have anything and I don’t have anything to hide anymore.”
we trying to get an update on Esther's situation, to know if she eventually got help.
-Olufamous
UNILAG TO HOST LINDA IKEJI,FIRST LADY and DEPUTY GOV OF LAGOS STATE…
DATE: 21st May,2013
Venue: UNILAG Main Auditorium
Time: 3:30pm
Updates from the event to follow later as they unfold…
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Monday, May 20, 2013
Ntukokwu Chukwudalu: Dana crash: The memories still hurt badly
First I marooned my thoughts from him being dead, holding hopes that he was somewhere still in Abuja all about his business. I kept the prayers going, that somehow he missed his flight that dark Sunday, until the family identified his gory remains at the morgue. I knew him as a fighter, the major reason I kept this hope alive. Watching Denzel Washington's 'Flight' further illustrated the jarring horror of 2012′s June 3rd seismic effect and it hurts so bad.
Words can't explain the size of the void you left behind here brother. I still get chills and rush through my spines, each time it hits me that you are so far gone. Maybe that's why Obie Trice's 'Never Forget You' keeps creeping into all my playlist(s) ever since your demise.
You didn't stay to see me become a father and a winner like you someday, but God knows best. The Ntukokwus know that you are in a better place and we still strongly believe that MD83 was safely cleared for landing in heaven, with every other passengers on board.
God be with all the families grieving from this disaster, albeit we have to realise that living our lives alone is like driving on a corniche. I learnt to stop referring it as a human error but a force majeure, even with the plausible reasons to point fingers at numerous palpable and preventable errors. In all things no matter how depressing God is definitely in control.
God bless Nigeria
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Mr Imo emerges Mr Ideal Nigeria
lifetime. It was a beautiful ceremony, well attended with lots
of scintillating performances and jaw breaking prizes.
There was a brand new car for the winner, thanks to Kia;
return ticket to London to represent Nigeria at the Mister
Africa International 2013, Shoes by TT Dalk, Outfits by
Mutay de LaTusche, Watches and start up business funds
by Watchlocker
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Sunday, May 19, 2013
Ashawo vs. Ashawo: Ghana-Nigeria Style
Ghanaian girls who offer sex for money at Adum, a suburb of Kumasi in the Ashanti region, have expressed anger over some Nigerians importing younger and prettier girls who are gradually taking over the sex business.
If not for the intervention of the assembly member for the area, Albert Osei-Banahene, the enraged sex workers would have hit the streets in their nakedness and marched from one office building to another, just to get the authorities to come to their aide.
“It is not that they are better than us in bed but as you know, most men prefer younger girls and these Nigerian girls are younger. Some are still in their teens and their agents protect them but we do not have agents who make things easier for us so the conditions of work are not fair.
“We would start attacking any underage ashawo from Nigeria because they are spoiling the market,” one of them noted. Interestingly, though both groups are prostituting, the Ghanaian girls say they are commercial sex workers while the Nigerians are ‘ashawos.’
According to the Ghanaian sex workers, the arrival of sexier girls from Nigeria is making business very competitive and compelling them to lower their rates or lose customers. Not pleased about the development, the disillusioned sex workers have declared their preparedness to hit the streets, should authorities fail to respond to their call and put in place appropriate measures to arrest the worrying situation.
In an interview with NEWS-ONE, the stationed sex workers revealed that some Nigerians living in Kumasi have made it their business of bringing in very pretty sex workers from the oil-rich country to practice their trade in the Ghana.
“Having realized the potential in the business, some Nigerians living in the city have decided to make it their business by bringing sex workers from their country to come and work here,” one of the disgruntled sex workers observed.
“When they bring them, they initially put them in hotels, before hiring rooms for them to practice their trade but we do not have agents or promoters so we are losing the market even in our own country,” another dissatisfied sex worker noted.
According to them, they would do everything within their means to ensure that the practice was stopped, because they believe that as Ghanaians, they have exclusive right to the trade. “We cannot allow Nigeria to take over everything in the country including the sex trade,” the sex workers emphasized.
The assembly member for the area, Hon Albert Osei-Banahene, who has being appealing to the sex workers to remain calm, appealed to the government to take up the matter and ensure that it is resolved amicably. He noted that it was important for the government to come in strongly because of the ages of the girls who are purported to have been sent into the city for sex trade.
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Nollywood Actor, Zack Orji Turns Pastor
Veteran actor, Zachee Ama Orji
popularly called Zack Orji has officially joined the list of movie stars
who have officially yielded to the callings of God to enter a full time
ministry.
It all started with actress Iyabo Ogunsola aka Efunsetan Aniwura followed by Eucharia Anunobi and actor Kanayo O Kanayo.
According to reliable sources, Zack Orji has been ordained a full-time evangelist by Bishop Emma Isong of Christian Central Chapel International (CCCI).
We learnt the talented actor had engaged in various gospel activities in Abuja, Lafia (Nasarawa) and Makurdi.
Pastor Zack Orji has dedicated his time to preaching the gospel of good tidings across the nations of the world.
He was born Zachee Ama Orji in Libreville, Gabon to a Nigerian family in the 1960s. He graduated from the University of Nigeria in Nsukka.
Zack Orji is married to Ngozi Orji and the couple has 3 children together.
It all started with actress Iyabo Ogunsola aka Efunsetan Aniwura followed by Eucharia Anunobi and actor Kanayo O Kanayo.
According to reliable sources, Zack Orji has been ordained a full-time evangelist by Bishop Emma Isong of Christian Central Chapel International (CCCI).
We learnt the talented actor had engaged in various gospel activities in Abuja, Lafia (Nasarawa) and Makurdi.
Pastor Zack Orji has dedicated his time to preaching the gospel of good tidings across the nations of the world.
He was born Zachee Ama Orji in Libreville, Gabon to a Nigerian family in the 1960s. He graduated from the University of Nigeria in Nsukka.
Zack Orji is married to Ngozi Orji and the couple has 3 children together.
Nigeria Is World’s Second Biggest Spender On Champagne
But Nigerians’ love of champagne is fast becoming fact as well as legend – with new figures forecasting that champagne consumption in the west African country will reach 1.1 million litres by 2017, with 2011 consumption at almost 8bn naira (£31m).
The figures, from research company Euromonitor, found that Nigeria had the fastest growing rate of new champagne consumption in the world, second only to France, and ahead of rapid growth nations Brazil and China, and established markets such as the US and Australia.
“Champagne has its own demographic on the higher end of things – it’s not even about the middle class, it’s about the elite,” said Spiros Malandrakis, a senior analyst at Euromonitor.
“People may find it surprising that Nigeria came second in the rankings, but it has an extremely extravagant elite, with Nollywood and the oil industry.”
Nigerians’ love of big spending has attracted growing attention in recent months. Last year figures revealed that Nigerian tourists in the UK are the fourth biggest foreign spenders, ringing up an average £500 in each shop where they make purchases – four times what the average UK shopper spends.
“At all the celebrity parties in Lagos, they always have champagne. And it has to be the finest – Cristal, Dom Pérignon or Moet et Chandon rosé – these are the things that are important symbols here,” said Vanessa Walters, the Lagos-based editor of Nigerian women’s magazine Genevieve.
“People say that at every elite event the champagne has to be flowing, and that how much champagne there is is a one-upmanship thing, like showing people that your house is bigger than theirs.”
But not everyone in Nigeria – 63% of whose 160 million population still live on less than $1 a day – is impressed with the extent of Nigerian champagne consumption.
“Nigerians’ unhealthy enthusiasm for anything foreign or imported is a plague that continues to pull the country back into this sort of wasteful expenditure,” said an editorial in Nigerian newspaper the Daily Trust in response to the figures.
“[These figures] reveal the profligacy that is offensive, if not obscene.”
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Beyonce On Pregnancy Rumors: ‘All I Can Do Is Sit Back And Laugh...
What pregnancy?
Beyonce Knowles is firing back after reports that the singer is pregnant with her second child.
On Saturday, the 31-year-old superstar posted a note on her Instagram account.
“I can’t stop the rumors from starting, and I can’t really change peoples minds who believe them,” she wrote. “All I can do is sit back and laugh at these low life people who have nothing better to do than talk about me.”
The post (full screen capture below) has since been removed.
Knowles’ response comes one day after E! News reported that the singer and her husband Jay-Z are expecting again. Earlier this week, Beyonce was forced to cancel a concert in Antwerp, Belgium after suffering from dehydration and exhaustion. She returned to the stage for the second scheduled Belgium show on Wednesday; the first show has been postponed to the end of the month.
Bey is currently in the middle of the European leg of her Mrs. Carter Show world tour. The “Grown Woman” singer is scheduled to perform in Milan, Italy on Saturday, followed by shows in France, German and Poland for the rest of the week.
The North American leg will kick off in late June and run through August.
[courtesy of Instagram/The Daily Mail]
Chris Brown Death Threats Prompt LAPD Investigation
New death threats made against Chris Brown have prompted Los Angeles
Police Department officials to open an investigation, according to
reports.
Multiple death threats were called in to the office of Brown's attorney, Mark Geragos, took them seriously enough to contact the LAPD about this.
The caller(s) threatened Chris' life. It's unclear how specifically.
Geragos turned over all the information he had on the calls. He filled out a report and the LAPD is on the case, but there are no suspects at this time.
It's unclear who would want to kill Chris Brown, though Ricky Romance and Raz B once threatened to, and there is the whole house graffiti situation.
Then there's the list of people who may have a bone to pick with him.
Jenny Johnson, Miranda Lambert, Drake, Meek Mill, Frank Ocean, that valet at the bowling alley, Rihanna, Karrueche ... we could go on and on.
We're just kidding. Mostly. Who do you think is behind it?
The caller(s) threatened Chris' life. It's unclear how specifically.
Geragos turned over all the information he had on the calls. He filled out a report and the LAPD is on the case, but there are no suspects at this time.
It's unclear who would want to kill Chris Brown, though Ricky Romance and Raz B once threatened to, and there is the whole house graffiti situation.
Then there's the list of people who may have a bone to pick with him.
Jenny Johnson, Miranda Lambert, Drake, Meek Mill, Frank Ocean, that valet at the bowling alley, Rihanna, Karrueche ... we could go on and on.
We're just kidding. Mostly. Who do you think is behind it?
How I was kidnapped by a club girl in Ikeja- Ayodele Olaoye
Esther was said to have conspired with six others to commit the alleged offence.The other suspects are Patricia Nna, Kingsley Okonwa, Osita Adigwe, Uzochukwu Ezioha, Jude Sunday and Michael Olarenwaju, who are being prosecuted by the Lagos State Directorate of Public Prosecution, DPP.
The seven defendants who were arraigned on March 5 are facing a five-count charge of conspiracy, armed robbery, kidnapping and neglect to prevent felony.
Led in evidence by Mr Ade Ipaye, Attorney General of Lagos State and Commissioner for Justice, Olaoye said he had taken the accused to bed twice since they met in February 2012 and they became friends.
Olaoye, who said he came back into the country in December 2011, after his graduation from a university in England, said the first defendant gave her name as Jenny and claimed to be a student of Lagos State University, LASU.
Olaoye who was testifying at the trial of the seven kidnap suspects before Justice Olabisi Akinlade, said on April 22, 2012, at about 4 p.m, which was on a Sunday, the first defendant asked him to follow her to her hostel in LASU and he agreed because he trusted her.
-How I was kidnapped
Olaoye said he drove his Nissan Muranno SUV and picked Philips up at a first generation bank in Opebi and they moved towards LASU with Phillips giving the directions that he should go and pick her friend, the second defendant, whom he said gave her name as Juliet.
He said after they had picked up Nna, the second defendant at Dopemu, Philips told him that the lady was her school mate.
According to him, after driving for sometime, they told me to stop at an isolated place because they were pressed, adding that immediately he stopped the car, three men, Okonwa, Adigwe and Ezioha, entered his car through the back door.
He said the defendants who were armed with a battle axe and knives dragged him to the back seat and took his mobile phone, wrist watch, necklace and money.
Olaoye said he was tied up, blindfolded and taken to an unknown destination by the first to fifth accused persons who told him to cooperate or they would kill him, adding that they took his phone and called his mum first to inform her that he was in a cage.
-The ransom
The plaintiff said after speaking with his mum, they also called his father and told him that he was in a cage and demanded a ransom of $400,000.
He said Phillips specifically told him to try and convince his parents to pay the money or the guys would kill him.
Olaoye said he was incarcerated for four days, adding that the defendants collected N5 million ransom from his parents.
According to him, his father, Mr Segun Olaoye, paid N5 million to them which they shared among themselves.
-My escape
He said it was while they were sharing the money that he was able to sneak out of the house where he was being held and took a motorcycle to his father’s office in Gowon Estate in Iyana-Ipaja.
After which he wrote a statement at the Police station but he couldn’t remember the exact date or the particular police station.
However, the matter has been adjourned.
Pretty Singer Dencia Says No Lady Can Be Trusted On Pregnancy Claims
But is she telling the truth? Is it true that no lady can be trusted? See what Dencia said below...
Pastor Says It's Natural For Men To Cheat: Wife's Should Understand That
Pastor Robertson said this while responding to the question of a woman who wrote:
“I’ve been trying to forgive my husband for cheating on me. We have gone
to counseling, but I just can’t seem to forgive, nor can I trust. How
do you let go of the anger? How do you trust again?"
See Pastor Pat Robertson's reply below...
See Pastor Pat Robertson's reply below...
“Here’s the secret. Stop talking the cheating. He cheated on you, well, he’s a man.
You need to focus on the reasons you married him. Does he provide a
home for you to live in? Does he provide food for you to eat? Does he
provide clothes for you to wear? Is he nice to the children… Is he
handsome?
“Recognize also, like it or not, males have a tendency to wander a little bit. What you want to do is make a home so wonderful that he doesn’t want to wander, or give in to the “salacious” magazine pictures and Internet filled with adult films."
So, women you people have heard abi? Men have the tendency, learn to keep them. *wink!*
-Olufamous
My Wife Exposes Her Boobs and Buttocks, I Can't Marry Her Again
It was drama galore recently at a court house in Lagos as 42-year-old
Owoseni Benson openly condemned his wife for dressing like the wayward
young ladies he sees on dirty music videos and movies.
He said his wife's almost nude dressing is attracting other men to her, leading to her sleeping out...
“I am not angry with my wife for not having kids but with the way she dresses provocatively, leaving her breasts and buttocks virtually naked. Anytime I complained, she will say that is what is in vogue.
"She brought a concubine to my mother’s burial but I didn’t catch her then”.
Benson has therefore pleaded with an Agege Grade ‘A’ Customary Court in
Lagos to dissolve his 7-year-old marriage over the wife’s wayward life.
He said his wife, Adenike Oladeru, was troublesome to extent that the
house they currently live in is the third house they rented.
"She fights everybody in the house, possesses all kinds of bad habits one can think of. There was a time she attempted suicide claiming that I rebuked her for being childless. [But] I only advised her to stop being troublesome with people”, Benson said.
"I had a child when I was in secondary school. She asked me to bring the child home so that if she lived with us, I would not be able to marry the mother, but when the child came to live with us, she didn’t give her rest of mind.
"There was a day we went to settle a rift in my sister’s place, she stood up and gave me a hard slap because I complained she goes after men. I caught her with a man late in the night, she did not come home that night, she went to stay with her aunt for a week.
"In 2011, she called me and said she was fed up with the union and gave me a month ultimatum. Two weeks later, she started parking her bags and left to re-marry. [So] I came to court to dissolve the union because she has come to beg me that we should continue, but I don’t want her anymore”.
The wife, Adenike, a hairdresser, refused to show up in court for the fourth time. The court president, Emmaunel Shokunle, has therefore fixed May 27 for final judgment.
"She fights everybody in the house, possesses all kinds of bad habits one can think of. There was a time she attempted suicide claiming that I rebuked her for being childless. [But] I only advised her to stop being troublesome with people”, Benson said.
"I had a child when I was in secondary school. She asked me to bring the child home so that if she lived with us, I would not be able to marry the mother, but when the child came to live with us, she didn’t give her rest of mind.
"There was a day we went to settle a rift in my sister’s place, she stood up and gave me a hard slap because I complained she goes after men. I caught her with a man late in the night, she did not come home that night, she went to stay with her aunt for a week.
"In 2011, she called me and said she was fed up with the union and gave me a month ultimatum. Two weeks later, she started parking her bags and left to re-marry. [So] I came to court to dissolve the union because she has come to beg me that we should continue, but I don’t want her anymore”.
The wife, Adenike, a hairdresser, refused to show up in court for the fourth time. The court president, Emmaunel Shokunle, has therefore fixed May 27 for final judgment.
Saturday, May 18, 2013
MUST READ: How We Lost Our Virginity: Ladies Reveal The "Secrets"
haven't [had sex], you're a prude. If you say you have [had
sex], you're a slut. It's a trap."
Virginity is a tricky concept. As a culture we've explored it in
our films, TV shows, books and classrooms, but we still
don't have a clear-cut definition of what it entails or why it's
important...
To get more answers to those questions, Huffington
Post asked its female readers to send in their virginity
stories — the good, the bad, the simply "meh." We received
submissions from women in their teens through their 50s,
within the United States and abroad.
And even though everyone had a story about their "first
time," each of those stories is very different. The diversity of
experiences shared with us further underscores the fact
that a person's first time can mean a lot of different things.
-"He was married, 30 years older than me"-
He was married, 30 years older than me, and guilty as hell. I
kept pushing for it. I wanted it. Until I got it. As soon as I
had a naked man writhing on top of me, all I could think
was, "God, I hope I never have to do this again!"
–32 years old lady, Toronto
-"It didn't hurt at all, but it wasn't good"-
I was 15 and he was almost 19. We never talked about if we
had "done it" before but I hadn't and I don't think he had
either. I had given guys blow jobs and been fingered and
made out with people so I thought "no big deal!" Right?
Wrong. Making eye contact was embarrassing for me and
making out was weird to do while we were "doing it." It
didn't hurt at all but it wasn't good. I was not aroused at all
anymore and I was seriously wondering if I was asexual or
something … Afterward, [we] talked about [it] for hours and
then by that time I was finally turned on enough that we
had enjoyable sex.
–18 years old girl, Utah
-"I lost my virginity on a trampoline"-
All my friends had lost "theirs" earlier than me, but I had
told myself I was waiting [until] at least 16. Well 16 rolled
around and we went to a gin and juice party. Unfortunately,
I laid my eyes on the hottest guy at the party and then laid
down with him on a trampoline. It wasn't magical or the
special waterfall I imagined. But, saying I lost my virginity on
a trampoline has made for some great conversations.
–31 years old lady, Virginia
-"He just friend requested me on Facebook"-
I was 15. Christmas night. On the basement floor. Partner?
17-year-old steady boyfriend of several months. It was his
first time too. He just friend requested me on Facebook
currently. I'm 53, happily married for the second time for 26
years.
–53 years old mum, Illinois
-"After we did it, we got out of the car and both went our
separate ways"-
I lost my virginity with a guy from my class I was in love
with. I was 18 years old. I had a crush on him since first
grade. He was out of reach until we started joking about it.
Then I asked him what if things [went] there and so, the
next day we met up. It was also his first time, so it wasn't
uncomfortable or anything. It didn't hurt at all. The
weirdest part was [after] we did it, we got out of the car and
we both went our separate ways. I told him, "See ya on
Monday at school!" And that was it. We never dated, but we
kept meeting like that for the next three years. I didn't date
anyone else. He was my first love and I don't regret one
moment of it. The only sad thing is that we weren't even
friends. I haven't seen him in ages, but my memories are so
great and I love it.
–25 years old girl, Croatia
-"Most unromantic night imaginable"-
We were both 17. My mom gave me a ride to his house. His
parents were out of town and my mom had no clue of
course. Things moved along and all of a sudden there we
were in his bedroom with music on. We got to the point of
either we do or we don't, so we did. As we developed a
rhythm, kind of, the doorbell rings, not once but frantically.
My first thought was, "Oh my God, it's my mom!" We start
freaking out looking for our clothes. He finds his first and
runs down to see who it is. Turns out to be a group of his
friends who showed up to invite us bowling. We got back to
things, finished and the doorbell rings again. This time it's
planned, different friends coming to give me a ride home...
Then they somehow spotted a condom wrapper in the
trash. Next of course were high fives and more laughing.
Most un-romantic night imaginable.
–Age and location not provided
-"I asked what no man ever wants to hear: 'Is it
in?'"-
My first time is the sort of story that mothers have
nightmares about their only daughter having. I was two
months shy of my 16th birthday and instead of the sweet
seduction of an R. Kelly song in the background, I had [the
horror movie] "When A Stranger Calls". It was 2 a.m. and I
had snuck over to my "secret-totally-unhealthy-bootycall-
who-I-thought-was-a-good-guy-but-actually-a-man-whore"
and felt judgement as the guards let me in. (I was a
Diplomat's kid and we had security). I remember his body
on top of mine asking me "Are you sure?" and my response
was "Yes, I'm sure."
After a heavy breath I felt something. Not pain but,
uncertainty and I asked what no man ever wants to hear:
"Is it in?" He replied with "Yeah, it's in, can't you feel it?"A few
minutes later, I had a sweaty guy on top of me, breathing
heavily saying how amazing it felt. I turned my face and
watched [actress] Camilla Bell scream. I didn't even realize
'til it was over that I never even got a kiss out of it. I walked
back home, snuck in and showered before falling asleep
until my alarm went off for school. I can't ever look at
Camilla Bell without thinking of that time.
–22 years old girl, Los Angeles
-"The only thing he didn't know about me was
that I was still a virgin"-
I lost my virginity quite late, I was 24: way too old. I was
dating a guy but the only thing he didn't know about me was
that I was still a virgin. Every time we made out I made up a
silly excuse not to have sex because I was afraid I'd bleed
and reveal the embarrassing truth: that I was a virgin. I say
"embarrassing" because I assumed being a virgin at that
age was something wrong — that I was unwanted, ugly,
undesirable and therefore, unworthy as a woman, that all
the times I had said no to sex because I didn't like the guy
or didn't feel confortable with it had made me a prude and
that I probably didn't deserve the sex.
I wanted to have sex with [my boyfriend] but at the same
time I didn't, because I didn't want him to know my secret.
So one day it just happened: we were having drinks, we
went to bed and we did it. I didn't even bleed (maybe
because I had already broken my hymen masturbating) but
he didn't notice it was my first time. I was nervous, I wanted
him to feel he was having sex with a "normal" girl (thanks,
prejudice) so I didn't particularly enjoy it.
Now I can say I have a very healthy sex life. I'm not
ashamed of having sex and I'm not ashamed of my body
anymore. Of course, that doesn't mean I needed a man's
approval to like myself, but engaging in a very active sex life
has made me aware of just how much pleasure the female
body is capable of experiencing. But if people want to wait,
let them wait: it's ok to do it when you want to, when you
feel you're ready and with a partner you want. Do not feel
any pressure. Your value doesn't depend on being wanted
by others.
–25 years old girl, Colombia
-"I had the big 'O' on the first try"-
My first time was when I was 16 with my boyfriend of eight
months. He was my first love. It was December 30th. I
know! New Year's Eve would have sounded much better!
But we had been trying for a while. He finally "got in" that
night There was a blue glow over us. I had a blue lightbulb
in the ceiling light of my bedroom. He was a virgin, too. Our
friends were downstairs in the living room drinking. Mine
was the party house. I had the big "O" on the first try! Yay! I
was on top. He had a little pain, I did not. I had always
heard about [bleeding] but it didn't happen with me. It was
wonderful. We stayed together until after he graduated, for
2.5 years total. I was so heartbroken when we split. Other
than my husband, he is the only person I've had full on sex
with.
We talked a few years ago after 22 years… When we talked
about our first time he said he remembered the moonlight
on me. I had to remind him of the blue light. He
remembered the rest.
–43 years old mum, Pennsylvania
-Huffington Post
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FRESHMEN CONCERT & ENTREPRENEURS AWARDS – UNILAG 2013 @FreshmenConcert
This, organizers believe will challenge and spurn other students to excel in their chosen field by adding value to our world. It is a platform to converse, relax and be entertained by various talented acts, as the event promises to leave lasting impressions in the minds of students of the University of Lagos.
ENTREPRENEURS AWARDS
The Entrepreneurs Awards is an award aimed at recognizing the hardworking youths of the University. The award is set to hold in June 2013 and promises to be a memorable event. Categories in the awards include:
"Producer of the Year
Model of the Year
Actor/Actress of the Year
Artiste of the Year
OAP of the Year
Blogger of the Year
Photographer of the Year
Comedian of the Year
Clothing Company of the Year
Event Strategist of the Year
Magazine of the Year
Fashion Designer of the Year
Vixen of the Year
Rave Club of the Year"
Nominations start on Sunday 19
th of May, 2013 and end on Wednesday 29
th May, 2013. Final nomination list will be unveiled on the 31
st of May, 2013 and voting commences on Saturday 1
st of June, 2013 till the 20
th of June, 2013.
HOW TO NOMINATE
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JAMB releases withheld results, begins CBT today
The examination body also announced that 91,610 candidates will commence the Unified Tertiary Matriculation Examination, UTME Computer Based Test CBT in the 7 various designated centres from Saturday, May 18.
While announcing the release of the results of the paper-pencil test and dual-based test conducted a forthnight ago across the nation and two foreign centres, the Registrar and Chief Executive of JAMB, Professor 'Dibu Ojerinde said the CBT will take place in the country and other countries namely Saudi Arabia, United Kingdom and South Africa.
Ojerinde who had said over 80, 419 results of the candidates were withheld for various reasons, noted that out of this figure, results of 68,309 candidates from various centres were undergoing further screening to ascertain their culpability, while results of 12,110 candidates had been withheld for possible disciplinary action.
Some of the candidates, who could not be verified as the biometric could not show their finger print on the day of the examination were listed by the invigilators in the affected examination centres and forwarded to JAMB head-office, Abuja, for scrutiny.
Ob9ja.com also learnt that some other results of candidates that were also withheld for further investigation of their innocence or otherwise over alleged examination malpractices, have been cleared and their results released while some other serious cases are still pending, as the Board said the exercise was a continuous process until final decision was taken on them.
However, the scheduled computer-based test will hold from May 18 till June 1 in over 70 centres. He advised candidates to reprint their e-Registration slips afresh to further ascertain their CBT centres.
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Friday, May 17, 2013
Music Premiere: Wizkid - Calling You Remix Feat Chris Brown, T.I, Rick Ross, Lil Wayne, Sedjro and Meek Millz
After a successful Orezi’s Rihanna Mashup by CoolDjMaxi , here’s another smashing hot mashup on Wizkid’s leak song, released early this year. Get ready to crank your stanky legs on this hip-hop remix…Enjoy!!!
Wizkid – Calling You Remix Feat Chris Brown, T.I, Rick Ross, Lil Wayne, Sedjro and Meek Millz.
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How Sex Mate Lured Businessman Into the Hands of Kidnappers For N5million
Men be careful who you rumple o! Not all ladies who talk smooth and give
you access to her body is good as she would want you to believe.
OluFamous.Com gathered that a Lagos-based businessman is now licking his
wound for trusting his sex mate blindly.
Below is the story of how he was lured into kidnappers den by his girlfriend...
Mr Ayodele Olaoye, a businessman, on Thursday
narrated to an Ikeja High Court how his 'babe' conspired with others to
kidnap him and collect N5 million ransom from his parents.
Ayodele was testifying at the commencement of the trial of 23-year-old
Esther Phillips and six others. She is said to be the mastermind of the
kidnap of Ayodele on April 22, 2012.
Ayodele, who was led in evidence by the Lagos State Attorney-General,
Ade Ipaye, said that he met Esther in February, 2012. He said, "I met
her at a club called Pegas in Opebi, she told me that her name was Jane
and that she was a student of Lagos State University (LASU)."
There friendship grew and they were sleeping together. He said Esther asked him on April 22, 2012 to come and know her hostel in LASU, which he obliged. He carried her in his Nissan Murano SUV from a branch of Guaranty Trust Bank at Opebi, Ikeja, and they headed for LASU.
"We later picked up Nna (second accused) at Dopemu. She told me that the lady was her schoolmate. After driving for some time, they told me to stop at an isolated place because they were feeling pressed," he said.
The witness told the court that immediately he stopped the car, three men who he identified as Okonwa, Adigwe and Ezioha entered the car through the back door.
Ayodele said they were armed with a axe and knives, adding that they dragged him to the back seat. “They took my mobile phone, wristwatch and necklace. After that, I was tied, blindfolded and taken to an unknown destination... They told me to cooperate or they will kill me. Esther specifically told me to convince my parents to pay the money or the guys will kill me," he said.
The witness said he was incarcerated for four days, adding that the
accused persons called his parents on telephone and demanded for
$400,000 (N60 million) as ransom.
He said his father, Segun Olaoye, later paid N5 million to them which they shared. He said that while they were sharing the money, he sneaked outside the house, where he was being held, and escaped.
"I took a motorcycle and told him to go and drop me at my father’s office on Gowon Estate in Iyana-Ipaja. After then, I wrote a statement to the police...," said Ayodele.
Esther is now being prosecuted alongside Patricia Nna, 26; Kingsley Okonwa, 24; Osita Adigwe, 35, and Uzochukwu Ezioha, 25.
The other accused persons are Jude Sunday, 36, and Michael Olarenwaju, 31. The accused persons – two females and five males – were arraigned before Justice Olabisi Akinlade on March 5.
They are facing a five-count charge of conspiracy, armed robbery and kidnapping. They, however, pleaded not guilty and were remanded in prison custody. The case continues...
14yr old girl killed & set on fire by boyfriend because he thought she was pregnant
Below is how New York Post is reporting it:
The family of the 14-year-old Brooklyn girl who was allegedly killed by her boyfriend and dumped on a beach blasted him this morning for cowardly slaying her after he thought she was pregnant.
Police had arrested Christian Ferdinand, 20, in Maine on Tuesday, where he had fled after he allegedly suffocated Shaniesha Forbes, 14, and burnt her body before dumping the remains at Gerritsen Beach.
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| Shaneisha's grandmother (left) and mother (right) |
Detectives yesterday drove Ferdinand back to the 63rd Precinct station house in Brooklyn, where he allegedly admitted to killing Forbes in January after coming to believe she was pregnant.
He was charged with second-degree murder, and has not been arraigned yet.
The victim’s weeping mother Sandra Price thanked the police for catching the killer, as did her grandmother Daisy Smith.
"I’m very grateful for the job that the two main detectives have done,” she said. “They did a wonderful job catching the killer and getting him for the street, and hopefully putting him away for life. That’s what I think he deserves.”
Smith said the family hadn’t been eating or sleeping since the girl’s death. “I’m so happy they caught this guy who killed my granddaughter,” she said. “There was nothing we could do, only wait…Bring him justice.”
Sources said Ferdinand suffocated the aspiring nurse — who was, in fact, not pregnant — in his apartment. He then kept her body in his home for a couple of days, sources said.
Finally, he allegedly put the corpse into a suitcase and brought it onto the beach, where he tried to get rid of it by setting it on fire.
Cops recovered the suitcase the killer used to transport Forbes’ body from his Maine hideout and also took floorboards from his former Brooklyn apartment, the sources said.
Relatives said never met Ferdinand, and was not sure how he met Forbes. Thomas speculated that they may have met through social media.
Honestly there shouldn’t have been a relationship. He was a 20-year-old man and she was a 14-year-old child,” she said. “As an adult, which he is, he should have known it was inappropriate to have any type of a relationship with a 14-year-old.”
Forbes was a student at the Academy of Young Writers in East New York.
Super Eagles Player, Yusuf, Caught His Woman With Juju
girlfriend, latest information coming from the troubled family has it that there is more to the saga.
It is no longer news that some ladies these days use mystical means (juju) to control the lives of their men and this happens often if the man has "enough" money.
Yusuf Ayila said his woman wants to kill him with juju. See
how it all happened below...
Hear what the football star said: "Firstly, I'll like to state categorically that Gbemisola is not my legal wife as widely reported. She is the mother of my two kids. We met years back and started a casual date.
"The trouble started when I asked her to bring my children for holiday in Ukraine. One day, while I lived with her, I opened Gbemi's wardrobe in Ukraine and found different charms, including a snake inside a bottle filled with gin .
"It was a confirmation of the feelers I got from family and
friends that she is fetish and had been using charms on me.
I felt uncomfortable living under the same roof with her. In
view of this development, I told her to return to Nigeria, to
which she refused. At that point, I told her I can't cope with
her bad habit anymore; that she had to go back to Nigeria
or I'll leave the house for her.
"Meanwhile, before seeing the charms in her wardrobe,
she's always been at loggerheads with my mother for no
concrete reason. I had to leave the house in Ukraine to get
another apartment when she refused to leave.
"Yet it never stopped me from paying the house rent, even
after my departure to Orduspor, Turkey, my club. I kept
paying the children's school fees and other bills and later
discovered that her Visa will expire in a few months' time.
"I sent her a mail asking her to leave Ukraine and go back to
Nigeria since she hadn't anything concrete doing and yet
again she refused. I sent her another mail threatening to
stop paying the rent in Ukraine by the end of April.
"When she refused to leave, I sent someone to collect her
passport lest she tarnishes my image and career. I started
hearing some unimaginable stories of her escapades with
men each time I visited Nigeria, but I kept my cool. She was
also reported to be having an affair with a popular Fuji
musician...
"She had on several occasions connived with some people
to kill me, which I survived by the grace of God. For the
records, I have a recorded phone conversation of that."
According to Ayila, he gives Gbemisola 1 Million Naira as
monthly allowance.
As for the new woman in his life, Ayila disclosed that he's
now legally married to her. He described the new woman as
a very responsible, God fearing lady who is his wife and not
a mistress, as claimed by Gbemisola.
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Thursday, May 16, 2013
Girls Stripped Naked and Flogged In Strange Graduation Party [Photo and Video]
we has not seen this type of graduation party before o! Graduands in Kogi state University are literally stripped, flogged, dragged on bare floor, and bathed with dirtiest and most stinking waste water – sometimes saved for the party – by guys and babes in the name of celebration. See the short video for yourself below...