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Saturday, November 28, 2015

The Pregnancy Story: Mrs Jolomi Odusi

“Jolomi don born, she born boy” were the words that greeted me this morning as I arrived work. We weren’t expecting her to give birth till later in the month so I was so shocked/elated/happy that I didn’t know when I threw my bag into the office, jumped in the air and screamed for joy. “Guy, hope all is well? Why you dey shout?” were the words that brought me back to Earth. “Oga you never hear? Jolomi just born”, I replied the CSO (Chief Security Officer) of the company.
Jolomi might just be a colleague at work but she was my favorite colleague married to one of my favorite guys working in a partner company.
I had just joined the company when I became endeared to her because of her feisty nature. She is like the lion in a sheep’s costume. You don’t want to be caught in her web when she gets angry. The customers know her for that. She got married last December and I was there as her unofficial photographer (I had a good camera so decided to form busy body taking pictures). Fast forward a few months after the wedding and Jolomi don get belle. Her name in the office changed to “shooting essential” which was a loose name acknowledging her and her husband’s speedy transition from newly wedded to future parents.
I don’t think I have ever followed a pregnant mother’s progress during pregnancy like I did hers. It was from her I learnt about the pressure of “carrying belle” for the first time. From back aches, to constant urination to frequent favors (the can’t-you-see-she’s-pregnant kinda favors).
We used to tease her occasionally, calling her Mama Ibeji or Mama Ejima (twins) and she would reply with a stern look on her face “I have gone for scan and its just one baby, I don’t want twins o. I never finish with one, na two you wan dash me. I no want. One is enough”. That didn’t stop us from teasing her with the news of her upcoming “twins” or “triplets”, if you want to provoke her.
Pregnancy seems to make a family see life differently. The man prepares for a life with an extra mouth to feed or should I say a diaper to change. He also prepares for life without the sole attention of his wife (she has to give small baby more attention than big baby). He prepares for extra bills, naming ceremony, day care bills etc. The woman on the other hand prepares for the upcoming and ultimate test of her femininity, the test that Eve (Adam’s wife) brought upon all mothers. She prepares for a pampered vacation (leave) usually 3 months for working class ladies.
So back to the when I heard she had just put to bed. I dropped my bag even before entering the office, asked for directions to the hospital which luckily was just 5 minutes walk from the office. I wasn’t the type to stroll taking my time to the hospital. I jogged/ran with such vigor that you would have thought something was chasing me. I arrived at the hospital almost out of breathe and saw a few women gathered around a new born baby. “Where is the new mother though?”, I thought to myself. Looking around in hot anticipation, I sighted the new mother casually seated like one of the women that came to see her. I hugged her and kissed baby while standing in awe of God’s faithfulness.
I was in the midst of mothers (the new mother, her mum and her mother friends) so I was out of my depth so decided to shut up and bask in the motherly euphoria that enveloped the maternity ward of the hospital. Then the when-I-was-pregnant tales began with the mother describing how she gave birth way before schedule.
She commenced, “….so three different tests run by 3 different hospitals told me that my delivery date would be sometime late this month or early December so I wasn’t expecting to go into labor anytime soon. I came to see my mum and slept over but at night I just felt the baby kicking more than usual. Why is this baby disturbing me this night like this, I thought to myself. I didn’t take it serious until the punches and kicks became more intense and I knew something was up. I decided to stand and see if the pain would subside when all of a sudden, the much anticipated and talked about ” water breaking” moment happened. I screamed for my sister and next thing I knew I was at the hospital.
All I remember was being on my wrapper with the mindset that I would deliver my baby with decency but when the pain held my waist, I didn’t know when I threw the wrapper away and was totally nude begging the mid wife to take this baby out asap. I heard her say “PUSH”. I tried pushing but the pain persisted like my whole waist was about pulling off so I closed my legs in defiance. After a little while, baby came out of me and my composure was restored and just like Adam and Eve did in the Bible, I realized I was naked and covered myself. The amazing part is that it’s less than 6 hours since I put to bed and I feel very fine without any pains. Thank God for safe and painless delivery”.
Marriage is wonderful but parenthood is a different experience entirely. I will experience both one day but while I wait, let me use this opportunity those that have gone before me. Congratulations to the Mr. Bamidele Odusi, Mrs Jolomi Odusi and the entire Odusi and Oruwigho families.

Face Of VL 2016 Registration Begins December 1st 2015, 1000 USD Up For Grabs

Introducing the ‘ Face of VL ‎ ‎Online Beauty Photo Contest ‘ , this
contest is intended to Showcase the Beauty of faces and imagery
through Photography.

Are u beautiful or are you between the ages of 16-25? then here is
your opportunity to start your career,become the new Face of VL

‎The winner goes home with the sum of 1000 US DOLLARS  which will be
given in cash and  Incentives which follows

1st Incentive:- A one year Certificate Contract with VL MODELLING
AGENCY, which management will facilitate modelling contracts
endorsement for one year

2nd Incentive:- A Certificate Professional Portfolio indoor/outdoor
Photo Session with one of  the Country Finest Photographer Gloria
Ukata (Riyality Photography) .

3rd Incentive:- A One Year Contract with one of Africa’s Leading
Digital Magazine  VL’ Magazine Africa as their Brand AmbA$$ador with
which strength spreads to Countries Like in Zambia,Namibia,South
africa and Angola.

4th Incentive:- Complete Makeup Kit Courtesy Crystal Makeovaz

5th Incentive:- ‎Co host for TV Show 'Hard Talk With Theo Olele
showing on Africa Magic and TVC from January February 2016

6th Incentive:- ‎Cover of Africa's Leading Digital Magazine 'VL Magazine Africa'

7th Incentive:- One Year Full blackberry Subscription

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Media partners:, Top Naija Radio,, Ob9ja
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Saturday, November 21, 2015

Publicity Stunts Presents GENESIS

Publicity stunts presents GENESIS, it is a concert for strictly upcoming acts to sell themselves, to promote, to connect with their audience, believe in their dreams and most especially give themselves a shot, with the presence of A list acts, record labels, management companies and sponsors.

This concert will engage the community with various performances and appearances from:

Cdq, Crush, Tobaloba, Ola dips, Masterkraft, Pepenazi, Brainee, Rtp, Durella, Slyde, Gabbybraun, Killertunes, Rocky, Vernom C, Ycee, T classic, Toby Grey, Young Tizzy, Ink Edwards, Galactic beatz and many more. 

Date: 29th of November 
Red carpet: 3pm (No African Time)

Supported by: A1 media || Yomi Suave || MrSammie || Yeyeboi Nation ||Nodge Ng|| || Stark Nation || 
Pulse Ng|| Badboy Nation || JuiceHouse || Invaders Ent|| The Gang Ent || Prodigy Ent || || PANE NG || Perspective Changer || Olodo Nation || || Kiss and Tell || Tudors NG || Extreme Ent || FAMOUS TV|| GOLDMYNE TV || PULSE TV|| NIGEZIE || WAP TV || KOGA TV || Hennessy || Sheynok Oil || Leila's place || Ruzu Channel || BME || Shaibu ventures. 


More info and sponsorship details call: 08142372820, 08065143500.

Monday, November 16, 2015

Ola Dips – Hello (Adele’s Cover) - @dips_ola

After winning D’banj’s #KingIsHere rap competition, and dropping one of the dopest Hip hop verse Of 2015 In the song #SouthAfricaMustGo, Ola Dips hits us with this slick masterpiece titled “Hello” a cover of Adele’s Hello.
This is officially the first “rap version” and Ola Dips killed it!
Mixed and mastered by Demmie Vee.


Dj Kentalky And YeyeBoi Nation Presents GOONZ ON DECK ( The Club Rave ) A Night with Naijafm SuperStar DJ Kentalky and Friends.

It’s another time again for serious turn-up, as the official DJ of Naija fm and multiple award winning Superstar DJ and Official DJ To Usual Suspekt headline by Dammy Krane, DJ KENTALKY and friends are about to hit " D'Place Night Club, Ikeja. Lagos".

A NIGHT WITH SUPERSTAR DJ KENTALKY is said to be one of the most anticipated club rave organized so far. There will be mind blowing performances and appearances from your favorite artistes/celebrities like;

Skales, Reekado Banks, Adekunle Gold, Dammy Krane, K-switch, Slyde, Ketchup, L.A.X, Ola Dips, Skiibii, Niniola, YCEE, Viktoh YBNL, Koker, Milli, Dj Lambo, DJ Sabzy, CDQ, DJ kaywise, Falz, Sossi , Slim T, Mufasa, Yung L, T'jan And More .....

This Club rave is tagged GOONZ ON DECK ( The Club Rave ).  it’s a night for Lagos as a whole known to be the most classy and gorgeous city in Nigeria, Africa and World at large to party with SUPERSTAR DJ KENTALKY.

Date: Saturday, 19th Of December, 2015.
Time: 10pm 
Venue: D'Place Night Club, 45 Isaac John Street, GRA, Ikeja,Lagos. 

Early Arrival Is Advised!.


For More Info/Details And Table Reservations , Call 2347063415252, 2348156322628, 2347034823549 .

Connect with @DJKENTALKY On Twitter And IG.

Saturday, November 14, 2015

Dj Voyst - WANTED (Mixtape) Ft Wande Coal - @dj_voyst

Dj Voyst has just finished merging all songs composed by Wande coal on his newly realised album WANTED... For everyOne to hear and feel the sweetness of his voice and also get the vibes of good music...



1. Intro - dj voyst
2. Intro - wandecoal ft seyilaw
3. Same Shit - wandecoal ft AKA
4. My Way - wandecoal
5. Skit - wandecoal ft falz
6. Superwoman - wandecoal
7. We Ball - wandecoal
8. Weekend - wandecoal
9. Adura - wandecoal
10. Monster - wandecoal
11. Lowkey - wandecoal
12. Make You Mine - wandecoal ft 2faceidibia
14. Wanted - wandecoal
15. Wanted rmx - wandecoal ft burnaboy
16. Skit - wandecoal ft Jimmie
17. Iyawo Mi - wandecoal
18. Plenty Love - wandecoal
19. African Lady - wandecoal
20. Jelly - wandecoal
21. Ashimapeyin - wandecoal 
22. Kpono - wandecoal ft wizkid
23. Baby Hello - wandecoal 
24. Outro - wandecoal ft kingspesh

Follow @dj_voyst on IG/Twitter 

Saturday, November 7, 2015

Her HIV Status: Family, Love And Sex

Violet is overjoyed when an article she wrote helped get land a job as a weekly columnist in a big magazine in Nairobi. She’s HIV positive, a fact she has hidden from her toaster/boyfriend “Winston” and her family including her parents.
Winston has been asking her out but she has kept him off because she wants to give her heart to someone serious not sex minded guys. Winston not to be deterred has kept coming back assuring her that he wasn’t after her body but her heart.
Due to the fact that the article that got her the job was about her HIV status, she was obliged to tell her parents about her HIV status. She told her mother and proceeded to her father’s school (he is a teacher) to tell him. She told him about her status and confessed to never having a boyfriend but being lonely made her do “crazy things” which included alcohol intake and unprotected sex. She asked for forgiveness from her father who was visibly disappointed in her and told her to keep her status a secret to protect the image of the family and his profession as a teacher.
In another scene, Violet is seen hanging out with her toaster boyfriend “Winston” in his apartment and both seemed to have had to much to drink with both ending up having sex. Remember that Violet hasn’t told Winston that she was HIV positive and both just had sex.
She confided in Skola, the guy that gave her the virus in the first place of her fears. She said “I slept with Winston and didn’t tell him (that she was HIV+). Then Skola asked “but you did use protection…yeah?” and she replied “I think so (she was too drunk to remember). Then Skola told her to tell him about her status. He continued “not telling him that you are HIV+ is sex under false pretense and you can go to prison”. She replied “what difference will it make because the deed is already done” and Skola smartly replied “he could see a doctor for one, he can get on PEP (Post-Exposure Prophylaxix). Its a HIV preventive medicine which is taken within 72 hours of unprotected sex with a someone that’s HIV+ and if maintained for 4 weeks there is a chance that it might stop the infection from spreading. “But I don’t want to lose my father” (she didn’t want her father to hate her after he told her not to tell anyone) and Skola replied again “how is he adding to your life if he doesn’t support you”.
Violet went home to see her family who were having lunch at the dinner table. Before now, only mum and dad were aware of her HIV status. Her two siblings had no clue. With the mindset that the cat was gonna be let out of the bag sooner than later, she confessed of her status to her siblings and her father outrightly told her to go and deal with the shame alone, that she was no longer welcome in his house.
She then proceeded on that same day with the courage that Skola gave her to confess to Winston about her HIV status. She asked him “did we use a condom because I was too drunk to remember much” and he replied “yes we did use a condom”. She then threw the bombshell “I am HIV positive”. He was flabbergasted and asked “and you forgot to tell me?” of which she replied “I didn’t think we will go there (have sex)”. He then retorted “but we did”. She advised him to go a clinic and get himself checked, just incase. He stood up in anger and said “I really liked you and those feelings wouldn’t have changed if you had just being honest with me” and he walked out on her.
Morale of the story:
1. Love: Violet confessed to her father that he never showed her the love she craved for and deserved. She felt lost in the World without daddy’s love and support which got her lonely most times and craving for the love of other men. A father’s love for his daughter is a big measure of how well she handles life’s challenges especially sex and love. Father’s should never leave their daughter’s at the mercy of society. Be there for them at all times.
2. Be open: She failed to tell Winston about her status which almost ended up being costly because he might have contacted the dreaded disease from her. Her secrecy also cost her his love. Being HIV+ doesn’t mean you should go around telling everyone but tell the people that deserve to know (spouse/family).
3. Don’t discriminate: So many people living with the virus have ended up living far longer lives than some people living without it. Its not the end of the World so why discriminate. Only if we didn’t discriminate against people living with the virus, then maybe they would feel free enough to divulge their status.
4. PEP: Before watching the movie, I hadn’t heard of PEP (Post-Exposure Prophylaxix) and literally had to google it up for more information. I don’t know much about its availability in your area but at least we are now aware that something could be done to assist those that were raped by people with HIV or had consensual sex with people with HIV. For more information on the drug, click HERE (Be informed).
5. Responsibility: Taking responsibility for yourself and others is very key. Who would have thought that a pretty girl like Violet was HIV+. As Nigerians would say “AIDS no dey show for face”. Be careful and if you must “do”, use protection.
6. Know your status: Violet knew she was HIV positive and was taking medication because she knew her status. A friend said to me that after seeing the movie she wanted to know her status, in her own words “I know I am clean but I just want to make sure”. Be sure. Know your status.
Story was taken from Episodes 1 and 2 of the second season of Shuga: Love, Sex & Money.
1. Click HERE to watch MTV’s Shuga (Season 2, Episode 1)
2. Click HERE to watch MTV’s Shuga (Season 2, Episode 2)

Lets Talk About Jidenna

Twitter in Nigeria has been buzzing about one Jidenna. “Who is this Jidenna and what did he/she do to get so much slander from Nigerians” was the question that came to my mind. After a few hours of research, it dawned on me that the self acclaimed Igbo-American rapper/singer had committed the ultimate blunder; talk ill of Nigeria.
The singer named Jidenna Theodore Mobisson in an interview with a music channel VladTV said,

“I am Nigerian-American and more specifically I am Igbo American, Igbo being the ethnic group where I am from and that means you are in the South East of Nigeria. You are way from the city so it means when you go to your village you are the only person or one of the few people that look like you. In my case, our family is light. Therefore when we go to our village, when I actually buried my father I had to bring in a lot of AK47, I had to employ military commandos because when you are light skinned, you are a heavier target for being kidnapped because you are seen as more valuable. You are seen as white therefore you have money. You are American therefore you have more money. If you have more money then you are easy to kidnap and if you are easy to kidnap then we are going to get you. So for me being light-skinned in Nigeria, in our family, it was difficult. We have been hounded. We have been robbed. Our family has been assaulted. We have had a lot of issues. You can say these to a family that is dark skinned color. They may or may not have these experiences but for us we have always been the target but when you come to America, its the opposite. The police may look you over. They may not pull out the gun faster the way they would have done if you were darker”he said. Watch the full video: HERE
HOLLYWOOD, CA - MAY 13:  Jidenna performs onstage during "American Idol" XIV Grand Finale at Dolby Theatre on May 13, 2015 in Hollywood, California.  (Photo by Kevork Djansezian/Getty Images)
HOLLYWOOD, CA – MAY 13: Jidenna performs onstage during “American Idol” XIV Grand Finale at Dolby Theatre on May 13, 2015 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Kevork Djansezian/Getty Images)
His comments FINALLY led to a unified Nigeria for the first time since the election started and ended. It wasn’t about APC or PDP anymore but about maintaining our dignity as a nation. A pretentious dignity that is. Nigeria is a country living in denial, if someone from the outside comes and says Lagos is dirty and flooded, Nigerians will form Voltron to kill him and then bury him in the same dirt they deny exists. Our country is blessed with what Fela calls “suffering and smiling” folks. We know something is wrong but we dare not acknowledge it outside the shores of the country. More like what happens in Vegas Nigeria stays in VegasNigeria.
He might have gone overboard with his remarks but his comments have gospel truth written all over them. As Ofili would say” Nigeria is a country in constant denial. That’s why we are some of the happiest people on earth. Because denial is the root of happiness.”
Asides from his distasteful but very sincerely true remarks of Nigeria, Jidenna is more of a Nigerian ambassador than any other Naija born artist raised abroad. Watch his two videos Classic Man and Yoga, in his posh suits he always manages to fit an Ankara tie and pocket square in it. Then check out his instagram page, always hailing Nigerian dignitaries and talking about how he looks up to them. Or is it in his radio interviews where he always talks about how he’s half Nigerian and even coined up the word Igbo American.
….and all of a sudden, he’s an “outcast” for speaking the truth about Nigeria?
Well, hate him or love him, Naija Twitter has made the dude more popular and has brought his works (songs) to a wider audience especially among Nigerians. So thanks for the hate…lol
…and those of y’all that wana know more about this ankara tie wearing Igbo-American rapper/singer. Listen/watch some of his songs/videos. I love the dude and asides his not-so-nice remarks about Nigeria, his songs make brain.
Let’s promote good music and not be known for our slanderish (made the word up, so don’t check the goddamn dictionary) nature.
Classic Man video with over 13 million Youtube views and counting: HERE
Classic Man (Audio): HERE
Classic Man (rmx) ft Kendrick Lamar: HERE
Classic Man (rmx) ft TI: HERE
Yoga ft Janelle Monae & Jidenna (video): HERE
Yoga ft Janelle Monae & Jidenna (audio): HERE
..and my favorite song of them all.
Long Live The Chief: HERE
Enjoy good music bikonu.

When Married Women Look Hotter Than Single Girls

It’s common place in Africa that most women tend to gain weight after childbirth coupled with protruding tummies. African women are given to looking bigger after marriage especially after childbirth with the mindset that they don’t have to work as hard to keep shape. The mindset that they are married and don’t need to keep their sexy bodies to get a man would make a woman not make her hair, not keep herself looking youthful and wearing wrapper at home. This ideology makes a woman look ten times older than she truly is.
The challenge any woman should pose upon herself is to look more beautiful than she was on her wedding day.
Marriage makes women lazy and complacent. She gives birth and she doesn’t bother working on her tummy to make it flat. She doesn’t bother to shed the ‘baby fat’ she gained during pregnancy properly. She’s too unconcerned to do kegel exercises which helps to tone the vaginal muscles after childbirth and return it to its tightened state.  She’s too lazy/busy to spend hours in the saloon to make her hair like she did when she was single or make her hails or even shave her veejay just because she’s married.

Women tend to forget that men are visual beings. Men are aroused not by what they hear. Men get aroused faster by sight than by what they touch. Therefore every woman should strive to remain in shape, sexy, hot, beautiful and very attractive during marriage and even after pregnancy.
Omotola Jalade Ekeinde, the famous Nollywood actress is a figure head when it comes to looking youthful. She is very close to 40 years with 4 big kids but could be mistaken for a 25 year old lady.
Another case of remarkable beauty after childbirth is Sonia Morales (IK Ogbonna’s Columbian wife). She gave birth only a few weeks ago and this post-pregnancy picture shocks the imagination. Seriously?…lol
The most shocking for me is a friend. She’s been on my BBM for a while. She’s the I-must-snap-picture-everyday kinda contact. I knew she was married but just recently found out that she had already coughed out two kids from her model like body with the last child only 6 months old.
Ladies, you can look hotter and more attractive as a mother than as a single girl. All you need is the right information, the right exercises, the right selection of food and most importantly, the will. All the best.

Understanding Virginity And The 5 Types Of Virgins

The word virginity is one of the most misplaced/misquoted/misused/misguided words used to define sexuality known to man. Virginity within the context of this write-up is used to define the sexuality of a female mainly because; no one really cares if a male is a virgin and there is no concrete biological evidence used to ascertain the virginity of a male.
Talking about virginity as it affects a female, isn’t as simple as ABC. Virginity used to be identified with the presence of a hymen but it isn’t that simple anymore. The hymen is a membrane that surrounds or partially covers the external vaginal opening which gets torn as soon as a female is penetrated is no longer a viable form of identifying a virgin anymore. 
According to social belief, a virgin is one that has never had sex with a man before. From a religious perspective, a virgin is one that has decided to forego her sexually active past and chosen to remain chaste til marriage. From the biological inclination, a virgin is one that has her hymen intact.
Lastly from a cultural perspective, a virgin is a naive, inexperienced, sexually inactive lady that has never had sex.
Now we have looked at the different classes of virgins, lets look at the different types of virgins.
1. The Virgin’s Virgin aka The Virgin: This is the girl who is informed of sexual matters but has chosen to remain untouched literally. She’s the kind of virgin that has probably kissed or even allowed a guy get to second base (her breasts) but that’s the most any guy has gone. Her veejay has never been seen or touched. This is the virgin’s virgins. They are made up mostly of religious fanatics, feminists and what we call in Africa “holy holy girls”.
2. The Technical Virgin: This is the most famous type of virgin. You know the virgin that has never really had penetrative sex but has done every other sexual act known to man? This is her. She’s the kind of virgin that isn’t even sure of her virginity. I remember reading the humorous story of a pregnant technical virgin. According to her, she never had penetrated sex but found herself pregnant and was shocked. Could a technical virgin get pregnant? Of course. A technical virgin might not have been penetrated but as long as she engages in the sexual act I call “kiss and tell” whereby the tip of the penis robs sexually against the clitoris and the entrance of the vagina. If her partner ejaculates at the entrance of her veejay, semen could accidentally sip into the vagina coupled with the enabling environment around a sexuality stimulated swim into her and fertilize an egg. A technical virgin has never had penetrative sex mainly because of fear not resolve. The fear of sexual pain, the fear of pregnancy, the fear of STDs. Some technical virgins are more sexually experienced (except penetration) than many sexually active girls.
3. The Disvirgined Virgin: This is the girl that has been disvirgined but not penetration by a man. This could be as a result of the insertion of fingers, candle, the end of a toothbrush/hair comb/pencil and many other obscene objects into the vagina for stimulation (trust me, it happens). These objects could be inserted by the girl during masturbation, by a guy during foreplay or by another girl (lesbianism). The introduction of these objects tears the hymen and renders her biologically disvirgined even though she hasn’t had proper sex before.
4. The Accidental Virgin: The accidental virgin and the disvirgined virgin are both similar but the difference lies in the intent. Whereas the disvirgined virgin had her hymen torn consciously/intentionally, the accidental virgin’s hymen may be lacerated by disease, injury, medical examination or physical exercise.
5. The Justifiable Virgin: Last but definitely not the least is the justifiable virgin. Simply put, these are the girls unfortunate enough to lose their virginity in the cruelest way; rape, incest or even pedophilia. Spare a though for the 19 year old girl who has chosen to remain a virgin till marriage but gets raped by the robbers who visited her house. Also the 13 year old girl that was repeatedly raped by her own father while growing up or even the 5 year old baby who was sexually assaulted by a pedophile. Their hymens might be broken, they may have been penetrated but due to the non consensual nature of the act (it was not their choice), they are also considered virgins, I believe they have a right to.
So there you have it, virginity has been simplified and broken down into the simplest form possible. This goes a long way to show you that the state of the hymen is not a conclusive indicator of virginity. Next time someone claims to be a virgin, send them this article and ask “what sort of virgin are you?”


Ola Dips

Ola Dips aka ‘Omo Iya Aje’ has been on the radar for quite a while now releasing singles like “Life,body and soul”, “Ojo Ibukun”, “Let Dagrin down”, “Balogun”, ” Something Is Stinking” , amongst others.
The underground artiste has been feeling his buzz, so when this versatile rapper features on this joint with fellow Emcee Blaqbonez, it was no surprise that he dropped one of the hardest rap verses this year “South Africa Must Go”, I gave it an honest listen and spill my thoughts on his verse;
1.  The verse is glorious, you could practically feel his pain right from the first lines, ‘see I be hip hop head, I can’t watch people do it wrong’… this song is exactly the way a young militant’s music should sound, you see a lot of people talking down on rappers and asking them to make commercial music on a daily, Oladips was frustrated with the norm and just poured his heart out on every bar sharing his struggles as a rapper in Nigeria.
2.  It’s a refreshing verse, his rhyme scheme is quite hilarious and relatable, but at the same time packs a bit of engaging and honest lines, rap in Nigeria no longer inspires its listeners, we have seemingly gotten used to the recycled sounds and the attempt at ‘selling out’, when last did an MI or Ice Prince verse get you screaming? ‘Cos throughout the year, all these rappers don’t impress me/ I mean hip-hop wise, nobody else to learn from’…
3. Oladips asks salient questions that every upcoming emcee needs to answer before recording that next song, ‘but the question is; how many dance tracks AKA get? ati Cassper Nyovest, see the reason why me I dey vex’ and he sure has every reason to be vexed especially when you consider the fact that Cassper recently got the Dome sold out and a Presidential acknowledgement without a dance track.
4.  Ode to Mode9, ‘…sugbon to ba je Modo, gbogbo yin mama shey hide and seek, anu Mode9 ma shemi tin ba re egbon ninu baggy/ ewo eni ti gbogbo awa new generation pe ni daddy’. Modo has been in the game from almost the inception when most of us began to listen to rap in Nigeria, mathematical Sege has been holding it down with numerous albums, endless awards and untouchable bars over the years, but by sticking to his style and doing rap the way he sees fit, he has seemingly gone unrewarded and not getting near half the props he deserves.
5.  Note to Radio stations that are always quick to interview AKA and Cassper but will rarely play a Mode9 or Boogey joint, this song is for you or like Dips spat ‘e niba tun sobe, I make sure I give am blow for neck’.
6.  This song in many ways reminds me of AQ’s ‘Distractions’ ft Vector, where for all of Q’s dope first verse, Vector stole the shine, on this joint Blaqbonez was also a lyrical beast and had a stellar performance but the grit and emotions Ola Dips poured out on his verse gets him the MVP here.
7.  South Africa indeed must go, let’s support our rappers, we have more than enough of them to make us proud.
Written By Ehis Combs Ohunyon, a music lover who writes when in doubt, follow on twitter @ehiscombs

Most Beautiful Girl In LASU 2015 Beauty Queens Unveil Their Pet/Community Projects

The Downtown Promotion, organizer of the biggest social event in LASU present to the general public,  the corporate communities, the pet/community projects and official pictures of the Most Beautiful Girl in LASU 2015 Beauty Queens.

The MBGLASU 2015 tagged ‘Beauty With A Purpose’ was the second edition of a social event  targeted to rebranding the image of the prestigious university. Many brands that visited the school during the pageant confirmed the hospitality displayed by the students as astounding.

Queen Olasimbo Yetunde Aminat is the Most Beautiful Girl in LASU 2015. Queen Yetunde Gold as popularly known is a model and a 300L student of Insurance at the Faculty of Management Science of the Lagos State University. She is 21 years old and of 5’8 height. Her community projects include;

a. An awareness education on Cervical Cancer in LASU, selected secondary schools and market women organizations.

b. Campaign Against Reckless Driving in Lagos  State.

According to the MBGLASU Queen, three (3) of her friends and family have died this year due to reckless driving.

The charming 1st Runner Up is Sammy Bukky Dona, a 300L student of Broadcasting at the School of Communications , Lagos State Uiversity. Queen Dona aspires to be a successful actress and On-Air-Personality OAP in future. She's of the 5’7 height. Her pet project  include;

a. Seminar on Gender Equality,  Good Health and Well-Being.

This is a initiative adopted by the MBGLASU 2015 1st Runer Up Queen to affect positively her immediate society. They are goals derived from the Sustainable Development Goals SDG’s.

The 200L damsel from College of  Medicine is Akinjayeju Temitope Iwalola. The 19 years old beauty queen is the 2nd Runner Up of MBGLASU 2015. Height 5’7. Queen (Doctor) Temitope community project is;

a) A rural medical outreach to Otto community in Oyingbo area of Lagos with free medical check up and Health Talk.

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For Lagos Boys: How Trey Songz Performing At Pepsi Rhythm Unplugged Can Spice Up Your Love Life

Earlier today, news broke that ladies man and R&B superstar Trey Songz will be coming to Lagos, Nigeria in December for the 2015 edition of annual Pepsi Rhythm Unplugged concert.

Now, Trey has built himself an impressive career from making beautiful music with a reputation for making the ladies go gaga. Just check out some of his live gigs, and you’ll find excited, screaming girls usually forming a large part of his fan base.

So, for Nigerian men, rather than feeling intimidated by the presence of Trey Songz in Lagos, here are a few lessons from Trey, that will help add extra spice to any relationship and keep the ladies truly happy.

  1. Be A Smiling Man: Women love happy men. There’s nothing as uninteresting for a woman as a constantly scowling and frowning man. A lot more smiling will get a lot more girls feeling comfortable around you. The smiling guy is the confident guy.
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  1. Look into her eyes: Yes, direct eye contact connotes strength, confidence and self-assurance. These are big turn-ons for a woman. A man that can look into her eyes shows himself as honest, sincere and confident. Ladies love Trey for that, even if when it’s done via the TV screen.
  1. Say Sweet Stuff: It is true that not every guy has been blessed with a honey-sweet voice like Trey. However, even in a husky, croaked amateur voice, a man can still delight his lady with a few love songs. If hitting the high notes seem too hard, then just read her some Trey Songz lyrics. Fine poetry. Easy.
  1. Get in shape: You don’t have to be Mr Macho or Mr Universe to impress your woman. You don’t even have to spend all day and night at the gym. But no woman can deny the love for a well-toned masculine body. Whether the full 6 packs or it’s only 3 you can manage, just try and stay in shape for your woman. If not to impress her, then do it for the health benefits.
  2. Take her out. Trip her: Not every time sit home watching football and playing PS with the boys. Sometimes take her out and give her some good sweet treat. You may not have all the smooth moves of Mr Songz, but you can at least take her out to Pepsi Rhythm Unplugged on December 18 and blow her mind away!